PROVERBS- A MEDLEY OF GOOD ADVICE (3)
November 28, 2004 PM
Sermon Outline
PROV 1:5,6
INTRO: When I go to a bookstore, I usually have some particular book or subject in mind. So, I spend very little time browsing. However, from time to time I do have a little extra time, and I often find myself glancing through the little books called Lifes Little Instruction Book. In fact, I have a couple of them in my own library. Each of them has scores of little pieces of practical advice. I have noticed that many of the points made are familiar ... I already know them and recognize their value. But the reminders are so helpful! I think that may be one of the values of the reading of the book of Proverbs. We probably know, either from study or experience, the advice given ... but it is such a good reminder to us. For example...
1. Living with guilt is not easy - 28:1
a. this little verse notes the guilty man is always looking over his shoulder!
b. the contrast is that righteous people do not have to waste their time and energy anxious about discovery
c. guilt is one of the most severe of slave masters - mental, physical anguish
d. read Ps 51 to discover the heaviness of guilt
e. notice especially vv. 11,12 - feelings of guilt do not just go away quickly and easily ... even when we know that God forgives us
f. it is far better, then, to live carefully and righteously ... to avoid any conduct which might result in guilt before God, man and self
2. Ignoring sin is very hurtful - 28:13
a. this adds to what we have already observed about guilt
b. the only constructive way to deal with guilt is to confess ones sins with genuine penitence - 1 Jno 1:8,9 ... shall have mercy
c. if other people are involved, openness about our sin is appropriate, helpful
d. but how many of us just cover, or ignore, our sins? tragic denial - we may refuse to accept that a particular behavior, activity is sinful ... but we really know it is
e. such covered sin has a way of eating at us to the point that it can affect our day to day lives and functioning
f. so, he...shall not prosper
3. Be careful of trusting unscrupulous people - 28:21
a. this is an interesting little verse
b. trusting people who have respect of persons is risky business
c. and the last part of the verse tells us why - such a person may be trustworthy until someone comes along with a better offer - and for advantage such a person would betray you
d. people want advantage, prestige, influence - and too many are willing to sell their souls to get these things
e. Jas 2:1-4 - why do we tend to behave in just this way? for some advantage
f. and we need to be so careful to be trustworthy - but its not always easy
4. Give honor and be faithful to your parents - 28:24
a. Mt 15:3-8 - here were religious people failing to honor their parents
b. apparently, Jesus refers to parents who are in need ... and children who have the material means to relieve those needs
c. but the children had found a way to be religious and keep their possessions
d. I recognize that not all parent/child relationships are happy, wholesome
e. but this does not absolve either of the responsibilities of the role!
f. few things look as distasteful, sad and adult children who fail to honor and respect their parents ... who are not faithful in their love and care for them
5. Dont trust your heart - 28:26
a. in movies, tv programs one often hears, What does your heart tell you to do? Go with your heart
b. I assume this advises emotional action or reaction
c. and there are many, many people who course of life is determined by their emotions ... what their hearts tell them to do
d. certainly, we want to have feelings, to have emotions which can be touched
e. but emotions, without the wisdom of Gods word, are terrible guides
f. the wise writer calls the emotion driven person a fool - this persons life will be topsy turvy, scattered, inconsistent, crisis after crisis ... walk wisely!
Close: One of my little books gives this advice: Take charge of your attitude. Dont let someone else choose it for you. Good advice. Heeding it, as with the advice in the book of Proverbs is the key!
Cecil A. Hutson
28 November 2004