PROVERBS- THINGS THAT ARE BETTER
September 5, 2004 PM
Sermon Outline
PROV 3:13,14
INTRO: One characteristic of many of the proverbs found in the Old Testament book by that name is comparison. The contrasts between those things which are wise and those things which are foolish usually leave no gray areas. Perhaps this is one of reasons the book of Proverbs has meant so much to me over the many years I have been reading it. It does not require a supreme intelligence to get the point! Some of these contrasts include the word better. As I have looked at these better passages, I have realized that there is much that is so instructive and practical for life in the 21st Century. Consider some of these passages with me.
1. Prov 3:13-18 - Wisdom is better than silver, gold and rubies
a. wisdom here, of course, is that wisdom which is from above
b. James writes of it at Jas 3:17
c. and, of course, the theme/content of Proverbs is wisdom
d. note at v. 15 how the writer stresses the incomparability of this wisdom
e. but a very human problem is noted at 3:7 - ...wise in thine own eyes...
f. Gods word reveals wisdom - a knowledge and use of that which God reveals to us leads to the happy noted at v. 13
2. Prov 15:16 - Fear of the Lord is better than great treasure
a. notice that the writer mentions little with the fear of the Lord
b. so, the question for consideration is this: who is really rich?
c. further, the writer also makes the observation that with material wealth often comes trouble - 1 Tim 6:9 gives confirmation to this truth
d. bottom line? a person who truly fears the Lord is the wealthy person
e. 2 Cor 8:14 - poor saints had an abundance to share - spiritual wealth
f. Prov 16:18 - provides us with valuable commentary!
3. Prov 15:17 - Poverty with love is better than wealth without it
a. here is a fact demonstrated over and again in todays families
b. affluence? yes - family love and harmony? often, not
c. is it the fault of affluence? not necessarily ... but, perhaps
d. affluence makes demands and presents problems which can, indeed, create strife in a family
e. but if we have to choose between affluence and love, the only reasonable choice to make in a family is love
f. Prov 17:1 - is this a lesson we can learn? and act upon it?
4. Prov 16:19 - Humility is better than pride
a. a humble spirit permits one to be comfortable even with the lowly
b. a humble spirit simply does not regard rich or poor - it sees people
c. this was so very evident if the life of Jesus - indeed, it may have been one of those things for which He was criticized (Mt 11:19)
d. Col 3:12 - put on ... humbleness of mind
e. it is only with a humble spirit that we can truly become servants
f. lets face the truth ... most of had rather be served than to serve
5. Prov 16:32 - Ruling ones spirit is better than physical, military might
a. this verse has become one of my own golden text verses
b. there are too many times when our spirits are out of control!
c. anger and harshness are too near the surface in many, many people
d. and Im sure when anger boils to the surface we feel we were provoked - I just could not help myself
e. but the word of God says, Oh, yes, you could have controlled your spirit
f. Col 3:8 - ...put of all these: anger, wrath, malice... - it seems that the Lord does not give us much wiggle room here!
6. Prov 21:9,19 - All sorts of things are better than an unhappy marriage
a. men can be as much a problem in a marriage as women!
b. a family can have all of the material success imaginable, look like the ideal family, etc. ... and be miserable, miserable because the marriage is unhappy
c. I am well aware that in a marriage relationship there are no guarantees
d. but two people need to know each other as well as possible prior to the I dos if they are to find happiness
e. commitment to the marriage certainly gives a great assist to success
f. but it takes a great deal more than commitment to make a happy marriage
CLOSE: As wise as the book of Proverbs is, until we are willing to learn from and act upon its wisdom it will be of little real value to us. These contrasts are so easy to see. And they are so accurate. I hope that you will give careful thought and consideration to these six points. They will make a difference in your life.
Cecil A. Hutson
05 September 2004