THE TWO FATHERS
February 9, 2003 AM
Sermon Outline
MT 7:7-11
INTRO: As I was developing this series of lessons on the twos of the Sermon on the Mount, I overlooked one of the wonderful comparisons Jesus makes. In our text there is the comparison of two fathers ... one is our earthly father. The other is our Heavenly Father. For most of us our earthly fathers have been a great blessing. I know that I am richly blessed for having had the father I was privileged to have. But I have heard other people say that their earthly fathers were not a blessing to them ... and they have questioned my references to my father as something they could not understand and with which they simply could not relate. No matter, however, our relationship with our earthly fathers, we have an incomparable Heavenly Father! So, what about fathers?
I. FATHERS GIVE THEIR CHILDREN GOOD THINGS
A. Even unspiritual, non Christian fathers can do so
1. so, our children ask of us, and we try to give to them
2. we certainly try to provide them with lifes necessities - bread ... fish
3. what kind of father would give a stone for bread or a serpent for fish? only a warped and cruel mind would do such a thing
B. But our Heavenly Fathers giving exceeds that of even a loving father
1. how much more shall your Father which is in heaven give...
2. at 6:32 is this affirmation: ...your heavenly Father knoweth that ye have need...
3. or at Jas 1:17 - every good and every perfect gift is from above...
II. FATHERS GIVE THEIR CHILDREN DISCIPLINE, INSTRUCTION
A. Fathers have a concern for the success and direction of their children
1. yes, there are exceptional situations of absentee fathers, or abusive fathers
2. but I believe that the general rule is that our earthly fathers really do want us to live ethical and successful lives
3. so, they teach by word and example - Eph 6:4 with Prov 1:8,9
B. Just so, our Heavenly Father provides for our discipline & instruction
1. 1 Thes 4:1,2,7 - ...how ye ought to walk and to please God...
2. Eph 5:8-10 - ...walk as children of light ... proving what is acceptable unto...
3. our Heavenly Father has not just left us to flounder in a sea of uncertainty - He has very explicitly give us the path within which to walk
III. FATHERS GIVE THEIR CHILDREN LOVE
A. Not all of us express our love to our children in the same ways
1. but I know of very few fathers who do not love their children and whose children are not a source of delight and pride
2. that love provides us with a sense of being wanted, of belonging, of security
3. that love tells us our fathers want the very best for us in life ... and will sacrifice for us
B. There is no doubt of our Heavenly Fathers love
1. He has sought our best by giving His Best
2. Eph 1:3 - ...blessed us with all spiritual blessings...
3. Eph 2:4 - ...for His great love wherewith He loved us...
IV. BUT THERE ARE SOME OBVIOUS CONTRASTS
A. Earthly fathers are fallible men
1. so, yes, they can make mistakes
2. they may even be unjust at times - because of their limitations
3. but our Heavenly Father is infallible - Ps 143:1 - faithfulness ... righteousness
B. Earthly fathers make promises they may not be able to keep
1. how many of us have said to a child, I promise - only to find we could not keep our promise ... we have severe limitations
2. was it what we intended? No ... but that made it no less a disappointment
3. but our Heavenly Father is without our limits - Isa 46:11 - I have purposed it, I will also do it
C. Earthly fathers grow old and pass from this life
1. their physical bodies grow frail and fragile ... and, finally, death overtakes them
2. we certainly hold them in memory - but the security they offered is gone
3. but our Heavenly Father lives on - an relevant thought is 1 Pet 1:24,25
CLOSE: There is nothing to equal the kind of love and concern a father has for his children. No one can take the place of my earthly father. In fact, my earthly father was a blessing from God. Yet, our Heavenly Father is truly incomparably superior to what my earthly father could be for me. Have you accepted His Fatherhood by being born into His family?
Cecil A. Hutson
09 February 2003